Following are some of the concrete reasons that might make you want to terminate a relationship no matter how much you love your partner.
1. You're unhappy in your relationship.
Fighting and disagreements are very common in every meaningful relationships. However if they become too much such that it robs away your happiness and makes you feel uncomfortable, stressed, or even burdened, you should quit and simply walk away. Otherwise it might lead to domestic violence.
2. You can't be yourself when you're with your partner.
If you find that your partner cannot allow you to be yourself while you are around them by using negative and insulting words, simply reconsider your relationship. These actions or negative words holds you back from developing your relationship.
3. You partner is too controlling.
If your spouse always spies on you, monitors your phone conversations, or even demands you turn over your paycheck, simply reconsider that relationship. Such acts are unacceptable in a relationship and means that there is a lack of trust
4. You live in isolation.
Isolation may lead to psychological and economic dependence on your partner. A loving and caring partner cannot try to isolate/forbid you from seeing your friends and family members. However if they start to do it, and it grows into a habit, just quit it.
5. Your partner is too jealous.
Even though it's normal to want to guard the people we love, especially when we see a potential rival cozying up, being excessively jealous can be detrimental to a relationship.
One of the most harmful effects of jealousy is that it can lead a couple to limit each other's independence. A jealous partner may shame you in public or even on social media. You have to realize it's not love. It's a form of psychological abuse, and it shouldn't be ignored.
6. Your partner always underestimates you and your achievements.
If your partner shows you that he or she doesn't value your achievements no matter how small they could be, simply walk away. Being in such a relationship may make you feel ordinary, lower your self esteem and it proves that they are belittling you.
7. It's almost impossible to plan your future together.
If you find yourselves in a relationship where both of you don't even have short-term plans, and the two of you are always trying to find an excuse for for being together, simply walk away. It's one of those signs you're in a toxic relationship that leads to nowhere.
8. Your partner always tries to make you feel guilty.
Blame games is one of the key factor among many other that destroy relationships. If your partner portrays this habit most of the times, simply ask them to change or quit it.
9. Uncontrollable episodes of impulsive aggression.
If your partner gets angry easily, especially when the situation isn't that stressful, such relationships can be dangerous as it may result to dangerous domestic violence
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